Let me ask you a question- and this is a purely hypothetical situation, of course, but what would you do if this happened to you? Let me paint the picture: It's a beautiful summer night, your sf (special friend- let's just call him that for anonymity's sake) and you had just gotten back from a stellar date- great dinner, an adorable play at a community theatre, fun conversation and are now cuddling on the love sac. (and by conversation I really do mean conversation- get your mind out of the gutter). Now how would you feel if in between kisses, you feel what you think is a hair on your face, so you pull away to get if off, and your sf says- "is that a bug on your face?" and he pulls a spider- yes a SPIDER... off of your face which had crawled from one side to the other as you were kissing. Would you dissolve into convulsions, while squealing your head off? Hypothetically speaking of course... would you expect him to be able to look at you, let alone kiss you, ever again without that image going through his head? No I wouldn't expect him to either- Would you be traumatized? Yes- so would I...hypothetically of course...